Globally, the ratio of men to women is imbalanced, and there are fewer women than men, so even if every woman gets married, there will still be men without a partner. Therefore, there are discussions all over the world, and some people even think that the "polyandry" system should be implemented. But this is just a public opinion. At this time, some people use actions to prove that their partner is not necessarily a real person.

Recently, more and more big cities have quietly opened "adult experience halls" with silicone sex dolls.

Silicone dolls are adult products. According to the real person, it is 1:1. It has a sense of closeness with real people and is used to meet people's physiological needs.

Initially, most of these experience halls were set up near factories, and most of them were migrant workers and elderly people spending money.
Now, these user groups are getting younger and younger.
People who visit the Adult Experience Center include white-collar workers, ordinary workers, and even college students.
The owner of a silicone doll shop frankly said that of the more than 5,000 services provided by his shop, 80% of consumers are adult men aged 20-35.
And for this kind of "sharing doll" experience hall, 242 stores can be found in a software search in Beijing.

The young man came here surreptitiously, and left after spending.
Some people think that this is contrary to interpersonal relationships, and it carries a sense of shame.
Some people think that this is just a physical need and does not require internet access.

In countries like France that prohibit red light zones, dolls can also hold certificates:

In Austria, local men rushed to buy sex dolls, selling amazingly:

Sex is a strict requirement of society, but young people do not want to enter interpersonal relationships to obtain sex.
Those hidden passions never disappear, but continue to develop and grow underground.
Many articles read "Young people are no longer in love". Everyone does not want to manage relationships, but young people secretly use faster ways to solve their needs.
Behind the rise of the phenomenon of "silicone dolls", what is most worth thinking about is that more and more young people are beginning to lead depressive, non-possessive lives.
There are fewer and fewer relationships needed, a lower desire for material things, and an increasing tendency to be single.
You don't even need to have sex with a living person.

Canaris, director of the New York Center for Psychological Services, said young people choose to have a relationship with inanimate silicone dolls because they "have no emotional or interpersonal feedback."
This means that they are increasingly inclined to simple social relations without much involvement.
The negative impact is also obvious.
They are addicted to pour out desires and develop a relationship with the doll, and separate themselves from the true and complete relationship.
In the movie "Wedding Banquet", guests drink and talk to the bride. Facing the foreigners’ incomprehension, Li Ang went up and said something that could explain many phenomena:

You are seeing the results of five thousand years of sexual depression.

The most recent census shows that China’s single population exceeds 240 million.

How big is the 240 million number?

This means that the number of single men and women in China is equal to the total population of Russia and the United Kingdom.
In fact, this is not only the current situation in China, but also the high rates of singleness in the UK and France. One in three married men and women is single.
In the United States, 50.2% of young people over the age of 16 are single.
There are reasons to believe that with the development of society, young people's desires should be more prosperous, because the cost of acquiring sex and love will decrease.
However, if we look closely, we will find:

More and more people are becoming more and more nerd. It is generally believed that interpersonal relationships are troublesome, consume too much energy, and have no better expectations for life.
In the movie "Send Me to the Blue Cloud", a character said:
Eros is the gate of life and death that everyone must pass through. When they come out from here, they will also go back.
People become humans because they have levels of desire, actively embrace their desires, and strive to face progress in order to achieve the most stretched self.
Cai Kangyong mentioned in "Happy Diary":
"Civilization shows us taste. The function of this taste is to enable us to distinguish between mean and noble desires, but it does not teach us to be people without desire.
Without desire, I'm afraid it will only become boring, and will not be able to gain wisdom. "

Have a vigorous, brave and enthusiastic person.

The whole mankind is full of desire, which is the source of civilization.
We are diligent and conscientious, working hard with both hands. In order to obtain more prosperous materials, countless people are working hard to cultivate and obtain them.
They face their desires instead of suppressing themselves.
The problem with contemporary young people is not that they have no desire, but that they work hard to oppress themselves. They obviously want them, but they say they are good alone.
As Li Jian said, we must live in harmony with our desires, not just suppress it.

If you want to be loved, love someone.
Manage relationships and learn how

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