I hope my partner is a beauty with short hair, cute facial features, and fair skin. She is graceful and obedient and never quarrels with me. As long as I am off work, I will always be with me at home. Such a woman looking at all over the world may find one, or there is no such woman at all. In addition to lowering the standard of inner ideals, sex dolls are another only way to meet this requirement or dream.

It's not surprising at all to use sex dolls. The strange thing is why some people treat sex dolls as real people, fall in love with them, or even get married?

Because of loneliness, I yearn for emotion

"My goddamn are you happy me to touch your wife?"

A few days ago, the movie World of Warcraft was released online in various courtyards, attracting a large number of Warcraft fans all over the country to watch. Among these people, a man took his girlfriend to watch the movie together. But this "girlfriend" is not a real person, but a sex doll, attracting others to watch. When someone with good deeds teasing his girlfriend, the man was very dissatisfied and even fought, which almost triggered a tribal alliance battle. "I'm fucking happy that your mother touched your wife?" This sex doll is already his daughter-in-law in the heart of this man!

I seemed to feel the loneliness of the otaku single dog. Obviously, for them, sex dolls are not only as simple as solving sexual needs but have risen from physiological needs to deeper psychological needs. The humanistic master Maslow's hierarchy of needs illustrates the need for human relationships and belonging and love. Everyone comes into the world and is not a separate individual. He needs to find and reflect his existence in the interaction with others.

Out of fear of loneliness, people are eager to socialize and seek intimacy with the outside world. This relationship can come from the mother, and then form a family relationship, can come from friends, then form a friendship, can come from a partner, and then form love, essentially to meet the needs of belonging and love.

Perfect companion

"She will never lie to deceive me or hurt my feelings"

Gordon is a factory worker in Virginia, USA, and has many girlfriends with sex dolls. Gordon once had a girlfriend, but those relationships did not end. His relationship with women is full of such experiences: when dating, the female companion released her pigeons; he called him to meet on a date, invited Gordon to come home, and she asked Gordon to help her watch the children, and then ran out fool around with other men. and so on. Gordon said: "I no longer dare to have any desire for women.

"I have had real love, and I have been in contact with some good-looking women, but I have never felt better like Jin Geer. It is not like love, but more like a spiritual attachment." Gordon explained Say: "Indeed, Ginger can't stand up, can't talk to me, can't accompany me to visit Best Buy and Wal-Mart, but she will sit there quietly, she won't get fat, she won't get old, she can always keep Her beauty is as it is now, and she will never lie to deceive me or hurt my feelings. Isn't that great?"

In the real world, people are always imperfect. The maintenance of a good partnership requires long-term running-in so that both parties learn to accept each other's imperfect aspects. If you refuse to accept, then you may lose this close relationship. The presence of sex dolls just provides a better possibility for this rejection.

So, for those who choose full size sex dolls as their partners, I think their personality is probably the pursuit of perfection. If the love I want only requires sex and quiet and does not require communication, the sex doll is indeed a perfect choice. Therefore, the sex doll is an external projection of the inner perfect self.

Denial of loss

"This sex doll looks very similar to my wife"

Deerman's wife died of cancer several years ago, which made him very sad. He started dating other women, but they were not interested in him. Finally, he found himself a sex doll. This sex doll looks very similar to his wife.

One of Freud's psychological defense mechanisms is called denial, which refers to consciously or unconsciously denying a certain painful reality to relieve his anxiety and pain. Because it does not seem to be painful if you do not recognize it (such as refusing the death of a loved one, and still insisting that you are not dead), this is a protective defense.

Many people choose to live with sex sex dolls and treat her as a normal person to pamper. There are not so many psychological roots, they just love someone very simply. Unfortunately, the person he loved would leave him forever, and he hadn't had time to say goodbye. He even refused to say goodbye to her. He stubbornly refused to accept the fact that she had left forever, so he took her Created another identical woman for the prototype as a replacement for her who had been lost.

Losing is always painful, especially for people with important relationships. Denial is an immature defense, we need to learn to accept it, although it is cruel and painful. Some people will choose to remarry someone who is similar to their wife after their beloved wife leaves; even some people will keep the corpse of the lover's death and continue to live with her, with shadows of deep affection and denial.

Therefore, when we once again see the news of "men watching movies with sex dolls" and "girls in beautiful age are actually boys", we can restrain the inner discrimination a little and understand it instead. Because they are all people who need to be cared for by this world!

Maybe one day, too, will fetishism, transvestite and "love syndrome with sex dolls" be? With the development of artificial intelligence, when more advanced robotic sex dolls are created, in addition to being indistinguishable from real people, but also has the function of emotion and interaction, perhaps the love with them will become daily life. After all, every boy has a perfect lover in his heart, how do you know that you will not fall in love with sex dolls in the future?

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